Fertility Series: Part 1

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There are two main reasons I’m writing this series, which is so very personal and tender to my heart: 1. For me: I’m doing this for posterity’s sake more than anything, so bear with me if this feels long and … Continue reading

Christmas: Catch Up in Pictures

Ok. It’s been a little ridiculous that I haven’t posted in so long and have left out the best part of our time here in London so far: Christmas with my fam. I can’t fully explain all that we did (I was posting obnoxiously on fb, so check there if you’re curious). But here is a bit of our Christmas Experience: London Edition 2011 in pictures.

Our Christmas Tree (or shrub)

Mama at Oxford Street

Mama at The Georgian in Harrod’s
Me and Mama in the Harry Potter section of Harrod’s
Harrod’s at Christmas
The Heaths at Heathrow
The Heaths at Heath Court (just by our flat!)
Oxford
The Eagle and Child
This cracks me up.
The Church-turned-Library outside Mimi and Syman’s place
{thanks for letting us stay!}

These 3 Gentlemen and Scholars 
The Radcliffe Camera
Oxford

Oxford
Oxford
Oxford
Oxford

The Perch
Oxford

The Perch
Oxford
The Perch
Oxford
The Perch
Oxford

Oxford

Hungerford Bridge
London

Hungerford Bridge
London

Hungerford Bridge
London
Holiday Downtime
London (our flat)
Went to ZSL London Zoo and found these two meerkats.

Camden Market
Camden Lock 

British Museum
St. Paul’s for Evensong
Had Evensong on the steps out front after a bomb threat forced an evacuation of St. Paul’s
Winter Wonderland
Hyde Park
The Globe Theatre

The Globe Theatre

Methodist Hall
Westminster Abbey 
Tower of London
Christmas
Tower Bridge

Oxford Street
And after my family left (and I cried the entire way back from the airport) Grant took me to
The Nutcracker at the English National Opera’s London Coliseum. 
English National Ballet
{it was fabulously done}
The End!

NHS – Surgery

Yes, I had appendicitis and an appendectomy.
Yes, I survived the National Healthcare Service and I was in the hospital for 6 days.
No, I did not like it.
Yes, my mama is here taking care of me (with Grant’s patient and attentive care, of course) and I seem to be recovering well, albeit slowly.

I really don’t like talking about it and am ready to be done with the whole experience, to be honest.
Wednesday through Monday I was in the Royal Free Hospital in Hampstead. Having been woken up every hour of the night with by-the-book symptoms of appendicitis, a neighbor offered to drive us! Praise the Lord! I was examined by a med school student and an EMT in training. It was a little disconcerting for him to be examining me in so much pain, asking questions like, “So should I begin by pressing here? and applying about how much pressure?” I did NOT want to be his guinea pig. Oh, also, I was literally on a cot in a storage room. Seriously. People would come in and out to get gloves, IV bags, etc while I was being examined, each one shocked to find a patient in that room!

Hours later they told me that it probably was appendicitis, but they wanted to get a Gyn opinion and an ultra sound. Oddly enough, many departments in NHS work M-F 9-5. At this point, the ultrasound department had just closed, so they put me to bed to wait it out. When I asked What if it should burst, releasing toxins into the incredibly compact area of my abdominal cavity? They reassured me: If it bursts, we will know…!

Thursday, they operated.

Friday, I was told the surgery was successful. I have two scars: the laproscopic approach didn’t work, so I have the typical appendectomy scar, too. I was detained Saturday, Sunday, and most of Monday. I never saw my surgeon again. I won’t dwell on the negative, but the care and overall experience was sub-par. Please pray for healing, for a full recovery {the woman next to me had been back FOUR TIMES for post-op complications after her initial surgery 8 months ago….} and for restoration.

Mama’s here now! Yay! She arrived on Monday and got to experience first-hand a bit of the NHS with me until I was released. Her timing has been perfect because this is a really busy week at school for Grant!

As for me now, I am still struggling to get up, sit up, stand up, and walk – but I’m doing it! My wounds throb, and daily things have become exhausting: taking a shower, drying my hair, getting dressed may take hours…! But sleep is good for healing so I sleep as much as possible.

A few positives, so as not to end on a negative with NHS:

  • They serve you tea every day, twice a day in the hospital at 10 and at 2.
  • The food is actually really good and you have a full menu to choose from for up to a full 3-course meal, if you so choose (and are able).
  • You are in “wards” which means your bed is one of 4, 6, or 8 in one room. This may seem like a negative, and sometimes it can be, but visiting hours are STRICT! so for the majority of the time you are alone, except for your fellow companions, and the conversation is usually easy and it all makes you feel less lonely.

Your prayers are much appreciated!